Journaling: Kay has always put flowers on Pappy's grave on Memorial Day, but this year she was out of town, so I agreed to do it. Jack had spent the night, and we went to Produce Junction first thing in the morning, but they had nothing we liked in “real” flowers. We finally opted for several cones of silk flowers in red, white and blue, and a small flag. At the cemetery I gave Jack free rein to place the decorations however he liked. He arranged and rearranged many times, finally settling on a placement he thought was perfect.