this is one page I really enjoyed reading. I have friends who live in trailer - and though I didn't grow up in one, I can remember I didn't get my first brand name shoes till jr. high. my mom put clothes on layaway at kmart when I was a kid. so I totally relate - and it has made me REALLy cherish the things I have now and strive to provide a better life for my child.
trailer trash can refer to anyone - just cause you lived in one doesn't mean that you are trash!
You certainly are not trailer trash!! I love your journaling! Making me cry though... Just think though... people today would think John the Baptist was trailer trash too so you are in good company! People are hateful and cruel, I see that more and more each day, even the people who think they are good can be hateful and unloving. Our job is just to love them anyway and turn to God to get us through those times. =) Beautifully done LO!! *hugs*
yes kids can be so mean but i never ever thought you other than a good person who is trying to raise here kids and be there for her husband and i don`t care if you lived in a trailer i would still consider you my friend.. cause i really do like you alot
Kids are cruel sometimes. I grew up in a very nice house, heard my dad constantly criticize other's less fortunate. I could never understand it. He always said we bought expensive meat, food and other nice things, but I was always friends with whoever was nice to me, regardless of how their parents lived. My best friend lived in a tiny little 900 sq ft house, that was much more comfortable than my 3000 sq ft house that was always cold in winter or hot in summer. I wasn't allowed to visit her house much, but loved it when I did. What I learned from my childhood is that money doesn't make the person. My mother would always make our clothes, they thought they had better quality than clothes from the stores. My father still brags about his money, and is generous to us with it. I now live in a 1300 sq foot house with 3 of my 5 children (other 2 are grown) and love it because it's "homey". I can afford (barely LOL) to be cool in summer and warm in winter, but still like expensive meat LOL. I also learned that my "poor" friends were also judgemental of me, thinking that I though less of them b/c my family had a little money. I NEVER thought that... and was hurt that they'd judge me. Point being... when we're grown, everyone is on even playing ground, and you should be PROUD of the integrity you have developed, maybe because of the cruel people you encountered on your journey. Unfortunately, our self esteem sticks with us for our lifetimes. I bet those mean people can't scrap NEARLY as great as you!!! TFSharing your story, it made me think a lot.
I love this page... the journaling is very touching and I am glad that you had enough self esteem to believe in yourself and make it to where you are today! Great lo!
Wonderful layout. Love how you made use of ordinary things such as the paper bag. Just a note - people who are "trashy" don't necessarily live in trailers. They live in houses and apartments, too. My first home was in a trailer. We lived there for a few years until we built a house on that same property. My aunt and uncle live in a trailer and she's an accountant for NASA. So just because someone lives in a trailer does NOT make them trashy. I'm sorry you had to endure people who thought otherwise. The world can be cruel. Like you, my mom always bought my clothes in the summer and put them on lay-a-way. In my childhood, I never saw anything wrong with it and always got excited about getting new things! You did a wonderful job with your journaling, too. Very heartfelt.
This is great. I can so relate to that journaling. I grew up REALLY impoverished and my dad was an alcoholic (sober now though) to boot. It's crazy that even now, so many years later, I have major insecurity issues because of being treated as somehow LESS of a person because of it all.
Love the sentimental journaling and the negative space!
Nope, you're a better person for what you went thru! I remember more, but you rose above all of it, and look where you are now, being a great mom, preserving your history for your family! Lovely!--
nope, ya not. lived in one during school. Dh bought it his freshmen year of college, easier than living in a dorm and cheaper than renting.
opps. Great job with the lo!!!
I love that your are so honest with your journaling. You did a fantastic job with all the office supplies and the crumpled up title is my fave part of the LO. PS...you don't have to live in a trailer to feel that way. I lived in a 2 story house with 5 bedrooms and felt the same way. Sometimes I still feel that way.
Amen Sister!! I live in a trailer I redid myself and decorated myself and when I leave here I am going to a double wide on ten acres!! LOL But I will mis this little thing. I love your story. XOXO
Not crooked IRL! My scanner hates me! LOL This one is for the Dream Girls Blog Challenge for moving journaling. I hope it fits. We had to use something around the house to stamp. I chose to use a wadded up paper bag (I used it to distress the cream cardstock). Which also kinda counts as using an office supply because it's what Dh takes his work to work in. I also altered some big brads that I bought from Office Depot by embossing them with copper embossing powder. AND I used a hole punch to punch out the little dots. Lots of office supplies. LOL
I made my own "trashy" letters by stamping brown paint with foam stamps on the same lunch bag I used to stamp the cardstock, so it was already crumpled and full of ink. Then I cut them out with about 1/4 in away from the paint.
Journaling says:
Most of my life I've been called trailer trash, and have been made to feel like because of where I grew up I am somehow less of a person than other people. It is true that all of my life up until I was 18 years old we lived in a trailer. In Port Sulphur until I was 12 we lived in a single wide trailer that was so small that my younger brother and I shared a room until my Step Dad put up a partition to split the room we shared in two. Once he did that we had even less room than we did before, but we had some privacy. When we moved up to Belle Chasse, La. I remember shopping for houses. We looked at several, but I remember that my Step Dad said we'd get more room for the money that we had to spend if we bought a trailer. So we ended up with a doublewide trailer this time. It was nice at first, but quickly deteriorated. My Mom still lives there. It has messed up carpet, plumbing, anything you can think of has had to have work. Whenever kids at school would find out that I lived in a trailer they would look down on me. I was ashamed, and rarely took people to my home to visit. We didn't have a lot of money growing up, and it really hurt me when people judged me by the clothes I wore. We only got to buy clothes once a year before school started, and that's what we wore all year. Mom would put them on layaway and pay for them over the Summer. As a result, I am not quick to judge anyone. I get angry thinking about the people who judged me growing up, and how awful they made me feel. Just because I lived in a trailer does not mean I am trash. I am intelligent, and capable. I'm creative, and independent. I am a lot of things that they never got to know because of their prejudice. Yes, I lived in a trailer, but I am NOT now, nor have I ever been… trailer trash.
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