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This is one of my LOs for the final week of the scraptathlon challenge. This challenge came up right after one of my neighbors made a little comment about how children need to have their mother at home and how working moms are one of the reasons that society has become &quot;the way it is&quot;. This is my theraputic rant that was brought on by that conversation. I thought it would be A good BOM LO!


Take a careful look at the picture on the left - that is the one and only time I ever wore my nursing cap and you all get to see it!


When I Work and When I Play, God Be with Me Through the Day.


I don’t wanna go to work!


What is it about women? Why do we do this to ourselves? I work outside of the home and I often feel guilty about it. I love my kids and I wish that I didn’t ever have to leave them. I know that they are fine; as a matter of fact they are with their Dad when I’m at work. It’s not as if they aren’t with a parent. And yet, I still don’t want to leave them and go to work. I really do like my job. I have a good job with flexible hours and good pay. I’m good at my job and I know that I’m helping people and making a difference. Nope, I still don’t want to go to work.
I have absolutely no reason to be whining. Eric and I planned carefully before we had kids. I became a nurse because the hours would be flexible enough to allow me to work around his schedule. We waited to have kids until we were in a position where we wouldn’t have to use any daycare. I only work 2-3 days a week. Yet every time a stay at home mom makes a comment about how they don’t know how I can go to work and leave my kids, I feel as if there is a knife twisting in my heart. Then I stop, collect my thought, and become rational again. There are a lot of reasons why my job blesses my family. Instead of dwelling on the negative, I need to focus on the positives.


My job is a blessing to my family in many ways. First of all, it supports us financially. I work to help pay our bills. Working helps me appreciate my family more. The days that I am away from them, make me value the time we spend together. I also work to keep my mind sharp. I learn something new every day that I’m at work; I always encounter something that challenges me. I work as an example to my daughter that women are capable of supporting themselves and their family. I want her to know that she has choices and does not have to be dependant on a man to support her. As a nurse, I have a
worthwhile career where I am helping people everyday. My job gives us a cushion that allows us to enjoy a few extras. Working hard ensures that we get to play often. But without a doubt, the best thing about the fact that I work outside of my home, is that it gives my children the gift of time with their father. Eric is an incredible dad, and when I am at work, Cameron and Meghan love the fact that they have him all to themselves. These blessings are almost enough to convince me that I actually do want to go to work. Almost. I can’t help it, I still wish I didn’t have to leave my kids.


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